Each week, we try to spend several times together discussing God’s word and praying over our family.I shared about that here (and how to make couples devotions a regular habit–one without guilt! We try to do this while watching a movie, walking into church, going on a hike, etc.I promise that learning how to flirt with your spouse can be an easy and fun habit to work into your everyday relationship.I created this awesome free cheat sheet with 130 Ways to Say I Love You to Your Spouse, and I’d love to share it with you so that you can learn how to better flirt with your spouse!Ladies, after more than 16 years of marriage, I’ve learned that there’s a fine art to knowing how to flirt with your husband. But, if you and your husband are like most couples, life changed after marriage (and certainly after kids).I mean, in the dating years, flirting with your man seemed so simple, right? You got out of the routine and, suddenly, flirting became second to keeping up with the chaos of family life.Sure those things are nice, but that doesn’t have to be all that flirting is. Flirting is about knowing what makes your spouse smile. WATCH THE VIDEO: Here’s the real question: What makes your husband feel loved? So often (especially when we’ve been married for a while) we need inspiring ways to say I love to our spouses.
It’s so easy to let making love slide as a priority, but my husband and I have found that regular times of making love bring much needed closeness and keep the spark alive between us. Each are clean and talk about sex as a blessing in Christian marriage:7) Write “Just Because” Texts.This is a must-have marriage resource for all couples, and it’s completely free! DOWNLOAD THE FREE “130 WAYS TO SAY I LOVE YOU” CHEAT SHEET HERE. We are busy, stressed people and marriage isn’t always about one big flirt-fest. Don’t worry about if your husband isn’t reciprocating right away, or if it isn’t equal.My spouse also travels a bit, so flirting in person isn’t always a possibility. Flirting with your husband may even be a sacrifice at first. Just do one thing today to flirt with your husband. If it’s difficult, ask God to renew your hearts and to rediscover flirting as a way to regularly show love. You assumed that flirting with your husband would always be easy, right?
I want to help you recapture that spark in your marriage by encouraging you with some great tips on how to flirt with your man.
Let’s talk more about what flirting (that doesn’t lead to sex) can look like.