I've never bothered dating before and even turned down someone trying to flirt with me because I was terribly self-conscious and knew the chances of compatibility would be so small.I've told my parents and they just tell me I just need to find platonic friends.But I'm over 30 and so for most males my age finding "friends" means joining clubs that meet once a week or going out with drinking buddies every once in a while when they have a break from family and work obligations. I'm also not averse to showing deep affection (emotional and physical) and caring but that is considered "weird" with platonic friends.I'm not against doing that but the problem is I've done it in the past and found it DOES NOT FULFILL ME or ease my sense of loneliness / emptiness. I'm just wondering if there's anyone in the same boat as me. A dust devil stuns you long enough to shroud forever those last shards of wisdom.
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Even if you did date a bunch of people it won't really solve anything, and your odds for finding someone for a relationship that way are quite low.You're not the only demisexual / demiromantic on here.It certainly does manage to complicate matters exorbitantly.Like you, I don't like the idea of commitment (I'm scared of ending up trapped in a negative situation I couldn't escape from), yet on the other hand I need that kind of deep emotional connection in order to feel fulfilled. I know there are online dating forums for asexual people, but I'm not sure if 'dating' is exactly what I'm looking for.