People views on online dating


You can’t judge yourself against the best, no more than I judge my writing on this blog against Philip Roth. And if you think YOU’VE got it bad, go check out the numbers for men who are writing to women. Your profile and first emails aren’t as good as you think.It’s pretty much the same, but worse, because the most attractive women receive TWENTY EIGHT times more email than the least attractive women. Take a deep breath and realize that this is a process and that all you can do is make the best of it. Just because I got a personal trainer at the gym doesn’t mean I’m going to be on the cover of Men’s Health.Preferences can be funny things, or at least our judgments of them.If I were to state that, “I have no interest in hiring a black person to do this job”, I would receive more than a little condemnation for that view.



This online dating community focuses on the specific interests and desires of people like you.As one of my colleagues recently posed the question, “” The issue of discrimination is one I’ve discussed before, considering why discrimination on the basis of standardized test scores is deemed to be appropriate, whereas discrimination of the basis of obesity is often not.So let’s turn our attention towards discrimination in the sexual realm today.I just listed a few things you can’t change – your age, your looks, your race – but there are many other things you can probably do better. Keep tweaking your profile and your search criteria.

My husband was one of those unusual guys who always had a lot of women writing to him on online dating sites, but that was because he never stopped testing what did and didn’t work.

If I were to state instead that, “I have have no interesting in dating a black woman”, I would likely still receive some condemnation, but probably less than for the first statement.