The girl i like is dating someone else


So for example, having a coffee with a friend, listening to their problems or helping them out in some way might seem fine and an OK thing to do and certainly no threat to a relationship.The problem is though that sometimes our partners have a different code to us and spending hours with a friend offering endless support and guidance can sometimes drift into developing an attachment which becomes a threat to the primary relationship.If we feel that the reason we’re enjoying it a little too much is because there are problems with a partner then the best advice would definitely be to sort out whatever is going on at home.In the meantime, if you do have feelings for somebody and you’re worried that you might act on them, maybe try to spend less time alone with them.



But probably, if we’re honest, most of us have our own code of conduct in situations like this.It is particularly difficult when we find we have feelings for a close friend, especially if they are a mutual friend of you and your partner.Wherever this new person has popped up from, should you spill the beans or keep it to yourself?Of course keeping it secret may become a big problem if you’ve confided your new feelings to another friend.